The CoachAccountable Perspective – An authentic view of what works from the receiving end of being coached

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Metrics

Real Results Given by Real Measures

I cringe whenever I hear talk about coaching that derides it as armchair psychology, as just paying someone to blow sunshine up your skirt. I get it: from the outside, coaching can appear no different. After all, those are simply cynical labels for helping a…

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AI in Coaching

When Automation Becomes Abdication

I am a programmer who delights in making computers do cool things to make people happy. A large part of my career has been discovering, building, and selling ways by which to automate away tedious tasks. So make no mistake: I love me some automation.…

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Psychology

Keeping Us Powerfully Related to Reality

I heard the phrase “powerfully related to reality” thrown about during my early exploits in the coaching world. It was spoken by my coaches, during conversations about what was possible and for creating futures worth living into. It’s a pretty abstract phrase, right? I didn’t…

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Action Planning

If We’re Chasing “Pie in the Sky”, Call Us On It

Now that I’ve said my piece around what a boon it is for you to help the seedlings of our ambition take root via generous listening, I now want to give you license to temper that generosity. Because sometimes, when we’re dreaming of what might…

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Showcasing Style

Help Seedlings of Ambition Take Root

One of the real treats of working with a coach is having someone who’s listening for us to be the most powerful version of ourselves. Someone who–when we’re daring to daydream about what might be–is there to cheer us on, rather than throw cold water…

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Psychology

Attending To Our Self-Talk is Part of Your Job

Here’s a proposition for your consideration: the self-talk that arises in us clients is an opportunity for you as coach. Few coaches have ever been taught that this is so. Fewer still recognize it for the outsized lever that it is, to be either a…

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Action Planning

Healthy Coaching is Action-Oriented

There, I said it. And by implication, I’m calling out coaching relationships that aren’t action-oriented as unhealthy. I used to think this idea was, well, not necessarily self-evident, but something that clearly must be so if you sat down and thought about it for a…

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Action Planning

On “Motivated Mere Mortals”, i.e. Your Typical Clients

I’d like to acquaint you with a type of person you are apt to coach, the “Motivated Mere Mortal”. They are distinct from the another variety of person you might get to work with, what I call the “A-Students of Coaching”. Like the Motivated Mere…

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Session Notes

Session Notes Worth Earning

Thoughtfully crafted session notes are a gift you can give to us clients, even if they’re only a few sentences. It doesn’t take much to train us to eagerly anticipate them. You can add even more power and active engagement to the mix by making…

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Showcasing Style

I Dare You to Double-Dog Dare ‘Em

Do you remember running around the neighborhood as a kid, with a pack of fellow neighborhood kids, until dark, or dinner, or whenever you were called in by mom? They weren’t necessarily your best friends, but they lived right up and down the street, so…

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